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How to give better head


You are giving someone something. You are offering an intimate part of your body — your mouth, your breath, your voice. Expert head queens are to be revered. These are people who truly, unabashedly love sucking dick. The rest of us How to give better head people have to learn, and the only way to learn is to practice.

These are tips and pointers that anyone of any gender can appreciate — 24 tips for giving amazing head. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. I am a sex-positive writer and blogger. Like everything How to give better head write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men.

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And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Photo by Jon Dean. I love kissing and touching. This can be the most intimate part of sex. Drawing out those early touches, those first stray hands, builds excitement and anticipation and confidence. Most everywhere men have insecurities about their penises — especially since we live in a world that fetishes and glorifies big ones, "How to give better head" than most men have.

Also, most guys over a certain age struggle to stay very hard, and must of us take a while getting there.